I recently read the book Scary Close by Donald Miller. In the book he talked a bit about he and his wife’s desire to create a home that is healing and restorative. A place where people can come and be safe on their journey of becoming whole. When I read this I thought, “Wow, this is exactly what Tracy and I have been trying to create.” I was motivated to continue learning and practicing in creating that kind of environment.
Back in 2007, when Tracy and I were first married, we lived in “intentional, missional community” with dear friends. These friends taught us a lot about the unconditional love of God. Their heart for the marginalized and disenfranchised continues to beat to this day. When we were back in the States earlier this year, we had the chance to visit with them a bit. Their house was warm as always with love and generosity. Their children’s friends were over, obviously they sensed the welcoming, accepting love that comes from the family. They were a model for us, an example we could see, and they created a place to experiment and grow, to make mistakes and learn and a place to forgive and receive forgiveness, a place to belong.
This is really what it is about. A place to belong. A safe place that communicates value and worth. Our homes and our very presence outside our homes can become a place to belong. Our presence with a friend or a stranger can become a place the communicate value and worth. This is radical hospitality.
People need examples and experiences to facilitate growth. Years ago we needed friends to show us how to love the marginalized. People need the opportunity to receive healthy and safe love from another human. They need to know what love looks like. By taking risks in creating a place to belong, we can help that occur. As I said, it starts with opening your heart…and continues by opening your door.